http://www.vsscyberoffice.com/articlelive en-us http://www.vsscyberoffice.com/articlelive N/A vparham@vsscyberoffice.com Sun, 07 Sep 2008 03:05:07 -0400 20 http://www.vsscyberoffice.com/articlelive/articles/22/1/Dealing-with-Infidelity.html Learning that your soldier has cheated on you is enough to send you on the emotional roller coaster ride of a lifetime. Do you leave or stay in the marriage? Your friends and family encourage you to leave but the bottom line is that you must deal with your spouse's infidelity. You must deal with your own hurt and betrayal, and the final decision about what to do must be yours and should be well thought-out. vparham@vsscyberoffice.com (Victoria M. Parham) Thu, 11 Jan 2007 00:00:00 -0500 http://www.vsscyberoffice.com/articlelive/articles/16/1/Woman-First-Military-Wife-Second.html A lesson learned in my 18 years of being an Army wife:  I am a woman first, then a military spouse, and as long as I kept the roles in perspective, my life as a woman, military wife, and mom was most fulfilling. vparham@vsscyberoffice.com (Victoria M. Parham) Wed, 25 Oct 2006 00:00:00 -0400