Learning that your soldier has cheated on you is enough to send you on the emotional roller coaster ride of a lifetime. Do you leave or stay in the marriage? Your friends and family encourage you to leave but the bottom line is that you must deal with your spouse's infidelity. You must deal with your own hurt and betrayal, and the final decision about what to do must be yours and should be well thought-out.

I've been married to my now retired Army soldier 18 years going on 19 and I'm more in love with him today than when we first got married.  Sounds gusshy doesn't it?  But it's the truth and I can’t deny it.